Also, re. GoFundMe — if your house burned down and you’ve lost everything, yes, I will contribute. If you just found out you’re dying of cancer, I’ll help. If your dog needs surgery, I will because I’m a sucker for cute. But… that’s it!!!!

Though one thing I thought was fine — I had some friends getting married who couldn’t afford a honeymoon. They asked people to donate to their fund IN LIEU OF a gift. No problems. I didn’t have to shop and they got to go on a honeymoon.