D*mn good article.

When I was married, I got a lot of head and didn't give any but we were both happy with our sex life.

After divorce, I dated a guy for a few months before we had sex, and he totally turned me on so I tried giving head for the first time. I found it fun. He was the only man I had sex with after the divorce. The rest of the guys I dated - I didn't want it so we didn't do it.

I have never done anything with a man that I didn't want to do, and I also don't expect him to do anything he doesn't want to do. I'm a libertarian at heart, and mutual respect in a relationship means coercion is not allowed.