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Faith, Cancer and Respect

Sharing my experience does not invalidate yours

Shefali O'Hara
3 min readFeb 1, 2022
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I was first diagnosed with cancer in 2004. I was given 6 months to live. I was getting ready to start a family, but instead I had to fight for survival. My faith was one of the things that saved me.

Yet for many people, religion, particularly Christianity, can be a trigger.

Here are a few of my thoughts as someone who clings to faith, yet respects those who have a different worldview:

I am not religious, I am a person of faith

When I play D&D, I invariably take on a chaotic good character. This is a reflection of my own personal zeitgeist. It is one reason I have not fit well in many churches. I am independent and follow my own judgement.

I love Jesus with all my heart and I read my Bible but I also ask questions and often don’t go along with so-called traditions or other trappings that I think do more to separate people from God and each other than foster authentic connection.

I can learn from other faith traditions

I have friends who are Muslim, Hindu, Wiccan… how arrogant would I be if I could not admit they might have something to teach me?

It’s about…

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Shefali O'Hara
Shefali O'Hara

Written by Shefali O'Hara

Cancer survivor, Christian, writer, engineer. BSEE from MIT, MSEE, and MA in history. Love nature, animals, books, art, and interesting discussions.

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