Forget passive-aggressive. I’m aggressive-aggressive.

But only when you push me…

Shefali O'Hara

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Photo by Mark Timberlake on Unsplash

Today I shared a story with my boyfriend about how I’m a slow-burn sorta person. I’m not reactive.

“I was in college,” I told him. “And I had a roommate who kept wanting to borrow my blender. I told her, sure, you can borrow it, just return it in the condition I give it to you.”

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Shefali O'Hara

Cancer survivor, writer, engineer. BSEE from MIT, MSEE, and MA in history. Love nature, animals, books, art, and interesting discussions.