Good to hear from you!

I am a big-time feminist IF you are referring to people like Mary Wollstonecraft. She advocated for simple human rights, which should apply to all people but she never denied that inherent inequalities exist - for example, she pointed out that men are typically physically stronger than women.

You are right, women are typically stronger in some areas. I typically say they are emotionally stronger, but they also tend to be more verbally facile. However, this does not justify bullying men.

Just like physically stronger men should not physically bully women, women should not use their emotional or verbal strengths to bully men. Again, it comes down to what I consider being a hero - using your area of strength in a positive way. Those who are emotionally/verbally stronger should use that strength to encourage others just as physically stronger people should help protect those who are weaker.

The point is not to belabor gender differences - we are all human beings. A decent human being uses his or her strengths to make society better, not to bully others or denigrate them. Unfortunately our society in general has become narcissistic. JMHO.