Shefali O'Hara
Jun 25, 2021

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I have found that some men ARE willing to talk about relationships... but they are also more likely to expect you to pay your fair share on a date. Whereas if you date a more traditionally masculine guy, he'll pay for most dates, fix your sink and get glazed-eyes or suddenly busy if you want to talk about the relationship.

And I'm not judging either one. I think both women and men should figure out what they want. Not everyone wants a traditional guy, but if you do, you have to take the bad with the good. Same with the more egalitarian guy.

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Shefali O'Hara
Shefali O'Hara

Written by Shefali O'Hara

Cancer survivor, Christian, writer, engineer. BSEE from MIT, MSEE, and MA in history. Love nature, animals, books, art, and interesting discussions.

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