I Never Worried About Cheating

Putting up fences was never my thing

Shefali O'Hara

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Photo by Deon Black on Unsplash

When I was younger, before my first marriage, I liked to date and I dated a lot of men. Sometimes other women would try to steal them. It never bothered me.

The way I looked at it — if the man and I didn’t have an understanding, he was free. If we had an understanding and he cheated, then I couldn’t trust him, so why would I…

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Shefali O'Hara

Cancer survivor, writer, engineer. BSEE from MIT, MSEE, and MA in history. Love nature, animals, books, art, and interesting discussions.