??? I stated "FYI - that was not me being snarky. that was an honest request for information." In other words, I was telling you STRAIGHT UP that I am honestly requesting information. Instead of taking me at my word, you accused me of being a liar. I find that offensive.
While earlier I honestly was curious and wanted to hear your viewpoint - at this point, I'd rather ask one of my black friends if ethnic taint is actually a thing. Unlike you, they take me at my word and don't accuse me of being a liar so we can actually have productive conversations.