I think this is one reason my dating life improved after college. In high school, guys are still struggling with insecurity. Well, we all are. I remember girl friends who were straight A students who started getting more Bs in high school so the guys would not be intimidated. I said, screw that and kept getting the best grades. So I didn't get many dates. But in college and after, it wasn't an issue. The men I want are secure in themselves and want what is best for the partnership/family. Why wouldn't you want the person who can bring the most to the relationship?