I think you misunderstood what I wrote.
I never said "all men start wars". And, in fact, young men who die in offensive wars are also victims - often conscripted without their consent.
I also never said women are pure angels and never do crappy things. What I DID say, and what is factually true, is that male leaders tend to be the ones who start wars.
The few exceptions (Queen Isabella of Spain, for example, or Joan of Arc) were invariably NOT wars of conquest so much as an attempt to defend their homeland. There is no female equivalent of a Genghis Khan or Pol Pot.
I don't consider men to be evil or women to be good - they are both human beings after all. But historically, male leaders are the ones who start wars of conquest. If you have facts that show this is false, feel free to provide the data.