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Misogynists and Man-Haters Need Not Apply

Don’t go out with abusers and users

Shefali O'Hara
4 min readAug 3, 2022
Photo by Andrew Rivera on Unsplash

Like attracts like. Many people thingk— if you want to attract a decent person — be a decent person. That’s good as far as it goes, but, while necessary, it’s not sufficient. You also have to be ruthless with toxic people.

Misogynists and man-haters

If a man hates women, women instinctively know. Unfortunately, some women ignore their instincts because they want to be “nice”. Screw that bullsh*t. Prioritize your safety, not his “feelings”.

Also, some women are broken. Either their Spidey Senses don’t work anymore or they ignore the warnings because they seek the toxicity. If you are in that camp — may I suggest you need therapy, not a new man?

Guys, if you hate women, then the only women who will seriously date you are those with emotional issues. Then of course you become more bitter and misogynistic because “bitches be crazy”. No, you idiot, the only women who will touch you without a ten foot pole are crazy.

Same with women. if you are all man-hatey then don’t be surprised if men use and abuse you.

Why I didn’t have problems dating

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Shefali O'Hara
Shefali O'Hara

Written by Shefali O'Hara

Cancer survivor, Christian, writer, engineer. BSEE from MIT, MSEE, and MA in history. Love nature, animals, books, art, and interesting discussions.

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