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My Friend Woke Up at 5am For Me

Because I needed a ride

Shefali O'Hara
2 min readJun 29, 2024
source: https://www.ausrad.com/

For the last 2 months, I’ve had 3 rounds of antibiotics because I kept getting sinus infections. I went to an ENT specialist and he sent me to ARA, which is Austin Diagnostic Imaging Services.

The issue?

I needed to be there at 6:30 in the morning.

I asked a friend if she could come get me, and she agreed. She would have to get up at 5am to get me at 6am.

I told her she was like my sister, because she was willing to do this.

In fact, she is so much dearer and closer to me than my own brother, who I am alienated from. It makes me sad, because I will probably never get to know my nieces. He (my brother) hasn’t even seen my mother in several years though he does send her flowers once a year on her birthday.

My friend and I consider ourselves sisters in Christ, which is a term often used by close Christian friends. We are also sisters in terms of personalities — we share many of the same traits.

I have found this repeatedly in my life as I struggle with cancer. God provides the people I need, and they are happy to help.

There are other people in my life who I now consider family in a way my brother never was. They pray for me, they talk to me, they…

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Shefali O'Hara
Shefali O'Hara

Written by Shefali O'Hara

Cancer survivor, Christian, writer, engineer. BSEE from MIT, MSEE, and MA in history. Love nature, animals, books, art, and interesting discussions.

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