people make the mistake of thinking this means you're a doormat. which is totally misinterpreting it. as a woman, I decided who I dated and if I wasn't being treated well, I stopped dating him. But I didn't argue, didn't complain, etc. I just became unavailable. It's easy and not complex. I want to be happy, I want him to be happy - so why would I date someone I need to change in order for him to make me happy?