Respect is more important than love

It’s the basis of all healthy relationships

Shefali O'Hara

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Photo by Pablo Heimplatz on Unsplash

I recently read about Brad Holmes. He put chili seeds on his girlfriend’s tampon, then posted a video of her screaming in pain on Facebook. Apparently this is a prank. I think it’s assault.

To put this in perspective that men might understand — what if the girlfriend decided to rub a chili on the inside…

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Shefali O'Hara

Cancer survivor, writer, engineer. BSEE from MIT, MSEE, and MA in history. Love nature, animals, books, art, and interesting discussions.