thanks for clarifying, and totally makes sense.

BTW, totally OK with me if you disagree with me. So feel free to do so.

Here is something that people often don't get - a woman can be successful, powerful, etc., and still be feminine. One of the most successful female managers I knew did NOT act like a man - she acted like a woman. And female managers who try to be masculine often turn people off.

I am a Christian, and in the Bible there is story of a female judge in ancient Israel - her style was maternal, not paternal.

I don't get why women want to be more like men or vice versa. It's a waste of time and effort, JMHO