thanks for writing so honestly.
I am personally pro-life but don't want to push my choices on anyone else. The government does not have the right to tell you what to do with your body and neither does anyone else. It totally pi**ed me off that you could not get sterilized or any of the other help you needed from doctors.
But I'm not surprised. I've had women friends tell me that they were not given the pain killers they needed during childbirth and other horror stories. One reason it's good to have an advocate any time you need medical help. You need someone to have your back when you are vulnerable.