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The dog also mattered
I still feel guilty for not doing more to help him
I recently wrote about how I no longer have a brother. You can read it here:
One thing I mentioned — I was unhappy with how my once brother and his wife treated their dog. But I was more concerned about my mother, who was depressed and suicidal. I wanted to rescue them both but only could manage one. That made me feel guilty.
Dexter was bought from a breeder by my once brother and his wife when he was 8 weeks old. He was adorable. They posted the cutest pictures.
They also kept the puppy in his crate for up to 12 hours a day.
That is not OK. It’s not decent. If you are a good human being — you don’t do that to an innocent puppy.
Mom felt sad for him because she is a compassionate person.
She would hear him crying and it broke her heart. So, after a couple of hours, she’d let him out and play with him and let him have a bit of her lunch as a treat. She would let him go out to use the bathroom, and then put him…
