the only issue I have with you is that I hope you treated the Thai lady with respect and honor if you broke up with her. It is never OK to use people, male or female.

I put a huge value on loyalty and honesty. I have a great boyfriend. And yes, I'm a Western woman (American) and a feminist. But for me feminism is about the rights of both men and women. One reason I've had no problems finding a great boyfriend who treats me very well and is super loyal to me - I treat him as a real person. I don't try to control him, manipulate him or play head games. We are very genuine with each other.

Men who are decent and good people should be appreciated, just like good and decent women. When I was dating many men, before I chose one, I was honorable - if I didn't want to see him again, I told him. Ghosting is cowardly.

To be fair, some guys broke dates or ghosted me, but that told me they were not quality people so I was glad they showed their true colors. There are both good and bad people in all genders, races, etc.