the other part of this is that if you've never done something you won't do it as well. the first few times I changed my own oil I was laughable. Ditto for the first few times I hammered a nail. Well, if a man has never vacuumed or done laundry - he might also not be competent. So bite your tongue and smile and say thank you. As he keeps doing the job, he will improve. At some point he might even do it better than you! :)