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This was in the context of dating. I assume if a man asks me out on a date, then he is attracted to me. If a man is attracted to me, that indicates to me that he desires me.

Obviously people open doors for each other all the time, in fact, I wrote in this story that "with friends, we hold the door open for each other" and I also wrote how people hold the door for people who are carrying packages, etc.

However, in the context of dating - if a guy does not desire you, why would he ask you out on a date? Particularly when he is college age.

So if you disagree with this, please explain. maybe I'll learn something?

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Shefali O'Hara
Shefali O'Hara

Written by Shefali O'Hara

Cancer survivor, Christian, writer, engineer. BSEE from MIT, MSEE, and MA in history. Love nature, animals, books, art, and interesting discussions.

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