Those are good points.
However, I feel that the white family (the real life white family that the Blind Side was based on) did a really good thing. If maybe that was more emphasized in the movie — it doesn’t bother me that much. I wish more people (white, black, whatever) did more to help troubled kids, I think that would make the world a better place. There are too many kids that never reach their potential.
I loved the Matrix movies, too, ’cause I’m a geek, I guess. I always thought Morpheus was more of the hero than Neo! I loved his character. :-)