To be fair, it's not insane to want your bf or husband to take care of you when you need help. What IS insane is to invent situations that require this care.

If I get a flat tire, I'll call my bf to come get me, particularly if it's bad weather and he's close by. And, I have done the same for him. But if I started blowing my tires every week...

Good men will help their wives or gfs, but EVERYONE resents being used. This is why healthy boundaries and mutual respect are important.

And, if you need a therapist - get one. that's not your SO's job, and neither is it why you have friends.

As always, I enjoy your articles and my own opinions are only that - JMHO