Um, yea, unlike you I have very respectful friends. Maybe because I'm not interested in forcing people to march in lockstep with me. It's called respect. No one is my slave, and I am also a free person. If you don't like me - I don't care. I have a metastatic brain cancer and probably only a few months to live but I enjoy my life and am surrounded by love. My boyfriend wants to marry me but I don't want to put him in a rough situation. Frankly, people like you who assume crap about others irritate me more. I try to actually understand different viewpoints instead of assuming. But you do you.