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What Do Women Want?
It depends on the Woman…
What do Women Want?
The question has been asked for thousands of years by lonely men looking for love and horny men looking for sex. They want to attract women.
Thousands of answers to this question have been given. Take a quick look on Amazon or surf the net. You’ll see books, videos, courses, etc., describing “fail safe” techniques to find the love of your life or a satisfying one-night stand.
The problem with these approaches is that they are formulaic. They treat women as black boxes. You put in certain inputs for the desired output.
Formulas Do Work… Sorta
As someone who was a shy kid, I can tell you that formulas do work, for the most part. I used them to navigate social situations. I read books on how to make friends and followed the rules when I met a new person or had to go to a party. I would smile, make eye contact, ask a question that showed I was interested without being too personal… these things worked.
The problem was that they only worked to form superficial connections.
If you’re a socially awkward man who has no clue how to approach women, picking up a book or watching a video might not be a bad idea, but realize that it will not get you a real…
