What is the definition of a good man?
What about a good person?
I wrote a Medium article on this.
I think a good man is almost the same as a good woman - there are just a few "mods" that I would put in the description due to things like higher testosterone and so on.
As far as sex - no one should be forced to have it. If a woman (or man - there are also men in this category) choose to wait until either they are in love or married - then that is not a problem. At the same time, that may limit the dating pool. So what?
It's good to be selective.
I think the Good Men Project offers some different viewpoints. If you don't like what is on offer, submit your own.