who cares who people date and fall in love with? We are all human beings. It's hard enough to find love without dragging race into it. If a black woman (or man) finds a loving, meaningful connection outside of her race - good for her. If you personally do not find black women (or men) attractive - that's fine, but why judge other people? When it comes to the heart - it's a deeply personal thing, and people just need to mind their own business.