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Why Respect Is More Important Than Love

Respect gets you through the long haul

Shefali O'Hara
3 min readSep 18, 2022
Photo by Priscilla Du Preez on Unsplash

Love is a powerful emotion. If can change your life.

Compared to love, what is respect? Respect is an attitude but it won’t move mountains. It doesn’t shake your world or capture your emotions.

However, respect is actually the foundation for long lasting love.

Because love is not best expressed by emotion, but by action.

Like ocean waves, emotions ebb and flow.

Respect is there regardless.

I think of respect as the steady state around which the variable state of emotions move. If love was a circuit diagram, then respect is a steady level around which love travels.

Yes, I’m a geek.

Hey, geeks can love too.

I published a story a while back about how you should let your partner keep pictures of their ex:

It’s very disrespectful to ask a partner to erase portions of their life.

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Shefali O'Hara
Shefali O'Hara

Written by Shefali O'Hara

Cancer survivor, Christian, writer, engineer. BSEE from MIT, MSEE, and MA in history. Love nature, animals, books, art, and interesting discussions.

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