Yeah I didn't do this. I got back into the dating scene 3 years ago when my husband left me after 20 years of marriage. It was a shock, the world had changed. But I still maintained basic standards of decency.

Which has worked to my advantage. I've made real connections with real human beings and found a great guy that I am in a monogamous relationship with as well as making some friends along the way.

Decency pays off. Just because other people act like asses doesn't mean you have to stoop to their level.