Shefali O'Hara
1 min readOct 30, 2021

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You know, maybe he should have asked her before he called a cab for her BUT her response was over the top. He was trying to be a decent person. She acted like a total b*tch. He is well quit of her. I would advise him that there are many women who actually appreciate a decent guy, but HE needs to be more selective.

I love guys who hold the door open for me, help me out with heavy boxes and so on. I am treated very well by men, but I show my appreciation, I don't act like a shrill shrew because someone is being thoughtful or kind. And this is true for both men and women - women should also be helpful when they can. I've held the door for men who are carrying heavy packages and treated men to coffee. It's not a gendered thing. Everyone should try to be kind.

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Shefali O'Hara
Shefali O'Hara

Written by Shefali O'Hara

Cancer survivor, Christian, writer, engineer. BSEE from MIT, MSEE, and MA in history. Love nature, animals, books, art, and interesting discussions.

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